I like the poem extract by Henry Scott Holland hence- Hi Jude, God you gave me a hard time when I first dated your younger sister. Luckily as well as being naive, but also thick skinned, I survived and humour and mutual piss-taking became the order of the day. You became a great sister-in-law and we had some great family holidays with you, Bob & the kids. Luckily lots of photos in the album. In latter years you've been a great soul mate and I've always looked forward to and enjoyed meeting up with you. I'll miss the banter and your sense of fun and your full deep chuckly laugh. Some great memories will always be with me. Gummy & You Live on!!!!!